Living independently, especially for women, will bring you a sense of dependence. This energy from the body can make women stay for themselves in love or marriage. Too many girls have heard a painful story when they are deeply in love. Women lose their lives not because they love someone, but because they didn’t realize that they were in the past, but they have been submerged deeper. For many years, they have been rushing around with colleagues and friends, which is the normal state of life, but loneliness is actually the eternal state.

I understand that solitude is a compulsory course for everyone, and it is a slow infiltration of nutrients to people. The sooner the better, the more difficult it is to live alone, and then I will overcome the fear of the outside world. I just think so, but it is not the case when I really do it.
Because of some reasons, I used to live alone in the field for more than two years, and every day was regular. I wrote articles in the afternoon, prepared for exams in the afternoon, and studied late, except for occasional physical discomfort and bad mood for more than 700 days.
The most difficult thing is that I have been accompanied by clocks and watches every day for more than 20 years, but I clearly heard the clock ticking and washing my feet for the first time in that year. I first knew that the sound of basin-to-foot washing would make the night noisy. I first realized that four hours a day was a long sleep, but I left a little when I did a lot of things. At that time, I was very worried about whether I would get aphasia if I didn’t talk to others for a long time. I found a lot of information and didn’t have an answer, but I was able to call my friends and chat in a few days to avoid being really aphasia.
Because I have a lot to read and write, I am gradually busy. Although I am still alone, my state has changed a lot, which makes my life diverse. I have thought of many ways. I used to eat some soy milk fritters on the roadside to make do with it. Later, I asked myself to get up at 6 o’clock in the morning, walk to the market to buy food and buy enough fresh ingredients to go home. Another advantage of doing this is that I can meet many people who are more talkative, so I can talk a few words, and I will be in a better mood. Jogging for more than half an hour every day, tired, I just sit by and watch the college students play ball and hold hands. Once I saw the advertisement for enrollment in the yoga studio, I signed up for a yoga class last weekend. More than a dozen women went from strange to familiar, and finally felt that they had many friends in this city.
It’s just such a small change that I can get busy except when writing and reading, and I don’t even realize that it’s been a year until I get home during the New Year. People will be afraid and will feel scared, but the fact is that those fears are broken down and gone day by day.
When I was two years old, I knew that even if the world abandoned me one day, I would live well. This is a heartfelt determination. It is the greatest wealth that more than 700 girls have given me day and night. Girls are eager to feel safe in men. If they live alone, they will know that they have given themselves a sense of security.
No matter how hard it is for you to live alone now, you must persevere until you can enjoy this life and really get it to nourish it. Shake hands before you can live another lively and noisy life. If you are crazy in the crowd but still feel lonely at the moment, give yourself a chance to live alone. You don’t know how wonderful it will be.
Some security money can give
There are many ways for women to protect themselves, but among them, the most practical and effective means is money. People always say that love is impure, but love will not last long without money. In love, money can give women more security than men.
I don’t know if you’ve ever felt this way for a while, especially tired physically and mentally, and you feel that you have lost your enthusiasm. At this moment, you really want to travel once, even if the place is not far away, so you can get out of the normal life circle. But when you think about the monthly salary calculation, you simply give up, and it’s good to watch a movie quietly at home. The most important thing is to save money. After this, you will find that you have lost your enthusiasm again and again, but you are maintaining a normal state without updating.
After a boyfriend quarrels, he especially wants to belong to his own home, but he can cry and drink recklessly in his room, even if he vomits until he can’t afford a house, he can still think about it, or he can cry in his heart when he stays in his room.
The old party wants to dress up beautifully, but there is no grade dress. Secondly, the face is dark and yellow. Even if you put on hundreds of masks, you still can’t get rid of the old ones. Thirdly, it seems that it’s time to change your bag for dinner. Who is carrying a backpack? After much deliberation, I finally decided not to go because it costs money and a lot.
It’s money that hinders us from better understanding of life. It’s a different concept from person to person compared with your desire. Some women will feel that life is beautiful when they eat a few ice creams when they are angry. Even if they are not short of money, they have to go on vacation when they are angry, but it’s hard to get the money to buy a plane ticket. That is, they are short of money. Women are not short of money. When they walk in the street, they can see that their faces are full of rage, as if they live everywhere, and their enemies are tight. Then they will be sensitive, and then they will be full of expression.
At that time, women still want their own money, and the more, the better. In our usual consciousness, elders rarely educate girls to make more money, which seems to be a boy’s career, but now women must keep making money if they want to make more money.
Especially for a woman in love, you have enough money to realize your desire for romance. If you meet a man and don’t buy it for you, you can buy enough money to love you. When you meet love at first sight, Gao Fushuai can confidently declare that a woman in love will feel down-to-earth about what she will do in her heart because of enough money.
After a boyfriend quarrel, actress Zhang Xinyi found that there was no place to go in the vast Beijing, so she made up her mind to buy an apartment in Beijing. So in a year or two, she worked hard to answer all kinds of notices. Whenever she was too tired to move, she would tell herself that I wanted to buy a house. In this belief, she bought a house quickly. You see, the reality is so cruel. Zhang Xinyi shouted that it would be nice if she didn’t have a person to accompany me when she was most tired. She shouted that she wanted to find a boyfriend. This is a poor thing compared with love in many people’s eyes, but the house can protect her. The
There are roughly two sources of women’s sense of security: one is love for men, and the other is self. Divide the source of women’s sense of security into ten parts. I think enough money should account for seven-tenths. When you are at your most helpless and miserable, you will find that money is more important than anything else.
When you are still hesitating about which way to go and what to do, if you can’t support yourself very well, make money first.
Sex is not inferior to love.
In this era of no longer talking about sex change, sex seems to be getting cheaper and more and more animal, and its mystery is revealed, and at the same time it has lost its dignity.
The first time I learned about sex was when I didn’t stay at the school gate on the same night as sophomore year, and the old lady asked me if I wanted to stay in a hotel. I wondered why I wanted to stay in a dormitory. I gradually learned from the same mouth that, well, they were boyfriends and went to the hotel to do that.
We used to call sex that thing, because it was really embarrassing. From childhood to high school, no teacher didn’t have a class. I didn’t seem to be particularly interested in it. I knew every day that I didn’t think about where I came from.
I remember in high school, I saw a movie based on Duras’ film lover’s scene, in which Tony Leung Ka Fai Jane March was sweating in a dark and humid room. It seemed that I was already very calm at that time, but I didn’t think it was making love, but I was venting my expression. I clearly remember that Tony Leung Ka Fai’s back was sweating outside the door and suddenly felt sad in the sunshine. Now that I think about it, it is the first love movie I have seen. It is so beautiful. Pure people say that you talked about your first love and then decided your attitude towards love. I think I have seen the first love movie and decided my attitude towards sex.
Suddenly, it is more than sex, and it has gradually become something that we will discuss in public. What we should know in adolescence is not given to you until we are young, and it is no longer in the shadows. It seems that you can’t help but marvel at the overwhelming crowd around you in the news.
On kissing and cuddling during the day or at night in the dormitory of the school, it is said that every weekend, the hotel outside the school can’t book a day, and my roommate also brought back some porn films from other girls’ dormitories. Curious, we took a look and fell straight for a long time, but we didn’t recover.
Sex is a very dignified thing, which is not inferior to love. On the one hand, it is based on love. Without love performance, it is considered as a moving piece, while real sex should be a drama. On the other hand, it also means that the physical integration of two mature men and women is also a match of responsibilities, not only for their own bodies, but also for each other’s bodies.
I don’t realize how proud it is to have never been exposed to sex in my twenties. It doesn’t mean that you are pure and clean, but that you haven’t really known yourself at every stage. Every stage needs to know things. In the era of soaring hormones, you don’t have sex. The same blooming flower is not full at all.
Knowing and understanding is true even if it is tentative. From the most realistic point of view, it can avoid risks and protect you. Once I was walking in the park, I met an exhibitionist man. At that time, I was not far from him. I quickly lifted my legs and ran away. Although I was disgusted, I still protected myself. I would eventually hear the news that a girl was pregnant and sympathize with her. At the same time, I also felt that these things could be avoided. If I did my homework, the hospital girl clinic could reduce many patients.
With the development, our access to love has also increased a lot. Don’t be ashamed to watch a Norwegian forest, don’t make your boyfriend nervous because of sexual problems, and don’t suppress your desires. It’s okay to try it.
Some time ago, there was a very hot news that her boyfriend decided to break up with her because the girl was not a virgin. The girl was in pain and begged for forgiveness. There is no denying that men in the World Expo have a strong virgin complex. Behind this complex, there is a narrow sense of selfishness and masculinity. They are not virgins, but it is funny to ask their girlfriends to be virgins. But this is a personal choice of others. On the other hand, I will think that this man does not really love her. True love is by no means private. There is no way to meet the virgin complex. Boys can buy a lottery ticket and tear it up if they can redeem it. Continue to
Love before you protect yourself and respect each other. It’s a long way to go. Cherish your youth and passion. Do the right thing when it’s right. Dear people, enjoy sey together.
Still friends after breaking up.
Revenge in love is not only harmful to each other, but also harmful to each other
The unbearable love story of the Korean film is that a young gangster Ying Yun met Lian Ya, a hostess, in a hotel and fell in love for four years. However, Ying Yun had already married his fiancee. At last, under the pressure of family morality, Ying Yun had to give up Lian Ya and chose his fiancee Song Kunyang to marry.
Director Hae-gon Kim focuses on the description of Lian Ya’s love for Yingyun. She loves her so much in front of him that she has no dignity. Although the main purpose of this film is to achieve a way that love is too light to stand the test and don’t expect too much from it, I saw another thing at the end of the story. Finally, when Yingyun chose Song Kunyang, Lian Ya tried to forget him, but in the end she chose revenge and told her about Yingyun that Song Kunyang was almost killed by Lian Ya.
When love met marriage, Lian Ya chose revenge instead of giving up, and Ying Yun had no wisdom to face two women, who were blindly defending ethics. This kind of revenge is now in the secret garden of a very famous Korean drama, Oscar, because of some neglect of his girlfriend Yin Se, and they broke up a few years later, when Yin Se stayed in the country and showed her affection and enthusiasm for Oscar, although she still loved him in her heart, she chose Oscar, which was more important than good, but Oscar’s brother’s blind date to retaliate against Oscar. Although they finally came together, the process of revenge was extremely long.
Behind revenge is love, but it is also hurt. This is love’s burden and extreme desire. generate seems to be a bomb. Many people believe that it has great energy, but it is unforgettable. However, it is forgotten that it is destructive. Once a tragedy is formed, it will be irreparable. Many Korean movies are expressing a kind of revenge love. It seems that it is necessary to be cruel to you before a conflict climax can be formed. I don’t know that this is just a dramatic means. His values should be imagined, but it is beneficial to the secular life. It is still because it is a life. Comfort is the bottom to describe life flying. Without this bottom, flying can be floating foam. Many powerful forces can give people excitement and can’t inspire people. This is the revenge in love. It seems that the injured party has temporarily gained the advantage of the heart, and the anger has been released. But the essence is to play a game that hurts each other. Everyone stops not because of restoring love but because they are tired.
Comparatively speaking, I agree with the attitude of swinging engagement after breaking up. On the day before the wedding, Wu Juyuan chose his girlfriend Wang Shunjia to break up. At this time, Yao Chen played Wang Shunjia and fell into deep pain and loss, but she kept thinking about it silently and didn’t choose Wu Juyuan to make a scene. Her attitude actually represents the attitude of most ordinary people towards feelings. When love fails, we will be miserable, but we will calmly heal. We are still relatives and friends, not enemies after killing. This seemingly painless way is more hysterical than hatred, not weakness, but compromise.
Many people say that we are still friends and relatives after breaking up. This is a realm that most people can’t do, but in fact most people in China can do it. However, sometimes we are instigated by all kinds of formal things and feel that it is too weak to finish a memorial ceremony. It is not because of our hearts, but because of vanity.
The root of our culture is to respect and share what we don’t want others to do to us. Since he has made a new choice, we will take care of ourselves. When we fall in love again, we will seriously love and have no regrets. We will walk together forever. If the midway quits, we will also choose to give up. If we don’t give up, we will not be able to save it for a long time. To put it bluntly, what can we do if we don’t do this?
Strength in love is never a victory. Peaceful coexistence is the king. Don’t add it to love. It shouldn’t be a heavy pressure. Revenge is destructive to each other and a foolish choice.
The ultimate love of young women in literature and art
In fact, the love of young women in literature and art is to enlarge or double the love of ordinary young people.